Symbolic Feng Shui Level - Feng Shui Symbols -

Symbolic Feng Shui Level - Feng Shui Love Symbols -
By Rodika Tchi, About.com Guide
From my experience as a feng shui consultant, the level that creates a lot of confusion about feng shui applications is the symbolic level of feng shui.
Feng Shui Symbols have a rich, culturally specific history and meaning. Most of us are familiar with the look of many feng shui items such as Chinese coins tied with a red string, wind chimes, three legged toads, gods of wealth, etc, etc.
What is important to understand is that, in order for feng shui to work, you do not necessarily have to apply traditional Chinese feng shui symbols. You have to apply culturally specific symbols that resonate with you. Applying feng shui correctly does not imply you have to apply the culturally specific feng shui items that you may not understand or resonate with.
The reason symbolic level of feng shui works is because of the energy specific symbols bring into one's environment, as well as because of their connection with the subconscious level of your mind. The stronger your connection with these symbols, i.e. the more you like them, the more powerful they become for you.
Some of the most popular Chinese feng shui symbols are:
Love & Marriage Feng Shui Symbols
- Dragon and Phoenix
- Mandarin Ducks
- The Double Happiness Sign
- Peony Flowers
- Gold Arrowana or Koi Fish
- Chinese Coins
- The Three Legged Toad
- Golden Ingots
- Sailing Ship
- Chi Lin, the Dragon Horse
- Golden Cicada
- The Red Bat
- Sau, the God of Longevity
- Lucky Bamboo
- Wu-Lou, Gourd
Choose Love with Feng Shui: Attract the Energy of Love

Choose Love with Feng Shui: Attract the Energy of Love
Feng shui tips for romantic love and self-love
By Rodika Tchi, About.com Guide
Feng shui for love is a popular topic. Not only because we are all looking for love, but also because feng shui has a variety of powerful feng shui tips to help you attract love.
If you type the word "Love" in any search engine, you will come up with love calculators, love tests, and, of course, love-related services at the top of the list. Feng shui brings help to your love search the easy way, thus it is worth taking the time and applying the many feng shui love tips.
When you look for love, the first thing to focus is your love relationship with yourself. Not only because, feng shui-wise, the only way to dramatically improve your love life is to experience more love towards yourself, but also because you will attract a better quality of people once you start feeling more love for yourself. You will also notice an improvement in "all your relations" - with your children, parents, friends and co-workers. In feng shui terms, the real test of love energy is to honestly evaluate the state of your bedroom, with the bathroom feng shui test being second on the list.
Yes, of course every part of your home speaks about you, but from many years of feng shui consulting I know that only bedrooms - the most intimate space where the "outsiders" are usually not allowed - truly speak of your level of love towards yourself.
Here is a little feng shui "checklist" for your bedroom, just 3 simple questions looking for your honest answers:
- Do you like all the items that surround you in your bedroom?
- When you wake up in the morning do you feel happy with what you see?
- Before falling asleep, do you feel "cocooned" and "nurtured", no matter with or without a partner?
Can Feng Shui Really Help Me Find My Soulmate?

Can Feng Shui Really Help Me Find My Soulmate?
By Rodika Tchi, About.com Guide
From my experience with clients looking for a love partner, a big factor in how quickly you will see results lies in:
- how clear you are with what you want
- how ready you are to accept love in your life.
Let me ask you, are you really ready for love? I mean, if the man or the woman of your dreams were to walk into your home today, what message will your home (and particularly your bedroom) be sending?
Last, but not least, if you are pragmatic about using feng shui for love, most likely feng shui will not work so well for you. If you are ready to give feng shui for love tips a try, do it with an open heart and total commitment.
The clients who achieved the most beautiful results truly believed in feng shui as an energy tool and applied the feng shui for love tips diligently and with a clear intent.
Attract A Love Relationship Using Feng Shui

Attract A Love Relationship Using Feng Shui
By Bonny Albo, About.com Guide
What Is Feng Shui?
Have you ever noticed that, after a spring cleaning of your space you feel lighter? Or that after you moved some furniture, your life seemed to 'flow' a bit better?
That, in a nutshell, is what Feng Shui is. Directly translated, Feng Shui means "wind and water", but an easier interpretation is to say that Feng Shui is the art of placement, or even the art of manipulating the spaces within your home to increase chi (energy) to attract love, wealth and lifelong happiness.
Which, if you think about it, makes sense. Have you noticed how when a door doesn't open properly you feel 'stuck' trying to get in or out of that room? Or when you walk into a house that has a long, dark hallway as the entryway, you feel a little bit claustrophobic? For each of these situation, there are Feng Shui cures - meaning, ways to update your space through color, furniture or enhancements - that remedy the 'afflicted' area.
How Love Relationship Feng Shui Works
Practitioners of Feng Shui can follow one or several different ways of balancing a space to enhance love, but all of the various methods include a map of your space using something called a Bagua. Simply put, a Bagua is a pie chart broken up into nine pieces and superimposed over the layout of your home. The kind of Feng Shui used will determine where your Love and Marriage corner lies: it is usually either the South West corner of your home, or the uppermost right corner of your home. As well, your bedroom (no matter where it lies) is also a haven for love relationships, and thus why many focus on this area of their home, first.
How to Attract A Love Relationship with Feng Shui
No matter which form of Feng Shui you decide upon, there are several quick and simple things you can do right now to enhance your bedroom so as to attract a love relationship. They are:
* Make room for love: Is your bedroom cluttered or full of things from relationships past? Do you have clothes shoved in your closets and underneath your bed? In Feng Shui, to attract a love relationship there must first be room in your life for love. This means clearing enough room around your personal space for another person to join you, including having closet space, at the very least two pillows (if not a bed big enough for two), two side tables, and a clear space under the bed for chi (energy) to roam freely.
* Face the right direction: We spend a lot of time in bed, and in Feng Shui, the direction that your head point towards while sleeping is an important aspect of attracting a love relationship. Figure out your kua number, and determine your best direction for your head to face. And while you are moving things around, try and make sure your feet don't point directly at your door, either.
* Sleep well: Sleeping well can mean a lot of things for a lot of people, but in love relationship Feng Shui, it means ensuring your bed is strong, stable and all your own. This means not re-using a bed shared in previous relationships (or at the very least buying new sheets), having a solid headboard "backing you up", and keeping the bed at a comfortable height (neither too high or right on the floor).
* Remove or 'cure' chi destroyers: What destroys chi in a bedroom? There are many things: mirrors (unless they are small and do not reflect the bed), beams over the bed, plants, dark dreary colors, artwork depicting single people, televisions and computers... and the list goes on. An easier way of remembering what to keep out of the bedroom to enhance Feng Shui for love relationships: only things that are meant for sleep, sex, or clothing should be kept in the bedroom, and nothing more.
Feng Shui Bedroom and Love Tips: Feng Shui Love Check Up of Your Bedroom

Feng Shui Bedroom and Love Tips: Feng Shui Love Check Up of Your Bedroom
By Rodika Tchi, About.com Guide
Are you looking to attract a love partner? Or, maybe you are in a love relationship that needs a bit of help? Feng Shui has a variety of love tips, or tips for using feng shui to find (and keep!) a joyful love relationship.Here is a quick feng shui love check-up of your home to see if you are really open and ready for lasting love.
* Is your bedroom comfortable for two people? Feng shui-wise, if your bed is squished in one corner of your bedroom or is hiding behind the door with just one lonely nightstand, you might have a hard time finding a functional love relationship. Feng Shui Love Verdict: Not ready, hiding away from love.
* Does your bed have balanced feng shui energy on both sides? In a love relationship the bed is used by both partners. For a love relationship to work long term, both partners have to feel equal, respected, and treated well. Feng Shui Love Tip: Treat both sides of the bed in a feng shui balanced way, in other words, treat them equally.
* Is there any free space in your closets? A closet that has some breathing room and a free flow of feng shui energy is not only promoting better health and more opportunities, but also, on a practical level, allows your loved one to store his or her items. Plain common sense here!
* Check if the all-important feng shui home trinity - bedroom, bathroom, and kitchen - is treated well. Use smart feng shui tips to help you improve it.
* Can you clearly visualize your life with the man or the woman of your dreams? How would that look, feel, taste, smell? Bring that sense into your home with specific images, feng shui colors, use scents (preferably pure essential oils) that reflect the energy you want. Feng Shui Love Tip: Avoid sad, broken heart images if you want to attract a happy love relationship.
After the feng shui basics above, you can try more advanced feng shui, such as:
* Be sure to properly treat the feng shui energy of the Southwest area area of your space. The feng shui element to nurture here is Earth, so you will bring items, colors, and images that strengthen either the Earth or the Fire feng shui elements, and avoid too much Water, Wood or Metal feng shui elements.
* Apply love-specific feng shui cures, such as objects in two, rose quartz crystals, etc.
To maintain a joyful love relationship, create a bedroom that reflects the beauty of the love relationship you want to be in.
Bad Feng Shui - What Not to Have in Your Bedroom

Bad Feng Shui - What Not to Have in Your Bedroom
Does Your Bedroom Have Bad Feng Shui?
By Rodika Tchi, About.com Guide
I remember watching a good TV show on home design that left me feeling very upset. That particular segment was on re-designing a bedroom which had a big and quite emotional painting of a lonely woman drowning in a large pool of water. The painting had a strong energy of sorrow and a desperate need to be alone.
The beauty is always in the eyes of the beholder, so there is no point in expressing my opinion about the aesthetical value of that painting. What I can say for sure, though, is that the mentioned art, or any images with similar energy, do not belong in the bedroom.
It felt almost surreal watching the designer re-decorating the whole bedroom around this sad painting, instead of taking a moment and sensing that this is a very inappropriate image for a couple's bedroom.
The other design element from the same TV segment that should never be in the bedroom is a mirror facing the bed. Even though the mirror was stunning - nice and tall, with an elegant gold leaf frame - a mirror facing a bed should not be placed in the bedroom. In this particular case, it was also overwhelmingly close to one side of the bed and sure "working hard" against couple's harmony and sexual healing.
I am not disclosing the designer's name, nor do I know the name of the client. This gives me permission to make a highly probable feng shui statement that the couple who sleeps in that bedroom either is, or soon will be going through considerable emotional difficulties in their relationship. Actually, the most accurate statement is that they were in a difficult place already when filming the show.
How do I know it? It's the feng shui energy communicating in ways that we can all learn to listen to and understand.
Feng Shui Bedroom and Love Tips:

Feng Shui Bedroom and Love Tips
Feng Shui Love Check Up of Your Bedroom
By Rodika Tchi, About.com Guide
Are you looking to attract a love partner? Or, maybe you are in a love relationship that needs a bit of help? Feng Shui has a variety of love tips, or tips for using feng shui to find (and keep!) a joyful love relationship.Here is a quick feng shui love check-up of your home to see if you are really open and ready for lasting love.
* Is your bedroom comfortable for two people? Feng shui-wise, if your bed is squished in one corner of your bedroom or is hiding behind the door with just one lonely nightstand, you might have a hard time finding a functional love relationship. Feng Shui Love Verdict: Not ready, hiding away from love.
* Does your bed have balanced feng shui energy on both sides? In a love relationship the bed is used by both partners. For a love relationship to work long term, both partners have to feel equal, respected, and treated well. Feng Shui Love Tip: Treat both sides of the bed in a feng shui balanced way, in other words, treat them equally.
* Is there any free space in your closets? A closet that has some breathing room and a free flow of feng shui energy is not only promoting better health and more opportunities, but also, on a practical level, allows your loved one to store his or her items. Plain common sense here!
* Check if the all-important feng shui home trinity - bedroom, bathroom, and kitchen - is treated well. Use smart feng shui tips to help you improve it.
* Can you clearly visualize your life with the man or the woman of your dreams? How would that look, feel, taste, smell? Bring that sense into your home with specific images, feng shui colors, use scents (preferably pure essential oils) that reflect the energy you want. Feng Shui Love Tip: Avoid sad, broken heart images if you want to attract a happy love relationship.
After the feng shui basics above, you can try more advanced feng shui, such as:
* Be sure to properly treat the feng shui energy of the Southwest area area of your space. The feng shui element to nurture here is Earth, so you will bring items, colors, and images that strengthen either the Earth or the Fire feng shui elements, and avoid too much Water, Wood or Metal feng shui elements.
* Apply love-specific feng shui cures, such as objects in two, rose quartz crystals, etc.
To maintain a joyful love relationship, create a bedroom that reflects the beauty of the love relationship you want to be in.
Feng Shui Love Tips: Attract and Nourish Love with Feng Shui

Feng Shui Love Tips: Attract and Nourish Love with Feng Shui
Use smart feng shui tips to attract and support the energy of love
Feng Shui love tips are among the most popular modern applications of feng shui. Why feng shui for love? Because we all need love in order to thrive physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Feng Shui wisdom offers a variety solutions to improve your love life, and most of feng shui for love tips are easy to implement.
=> feng shui love tips
Although love has many facets, the feng shui information below applies mostly to the romantic aspect of love.
If you are looking to attract a happy love relationship, study your home carefully with feng shui and see if it reflects your intent for love.
Start making space for a love relationship to come into your life. Study the feng shui use of essential oils, candles, crystals to raise the vibrations of your home.
Have images of happy couples, use simple feng shui cures for love, such as things in pairs in the Southwest corner of your bedroom and home.
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Feng Shui Love: Is Clutter Getting In The Way Of Your Sex Life?

Feng Shui Love: Is Clutter Getting In The Way Of Your Sex Life?
Jennifer Parks, From Edmonton Journal
Is your love life a little lacklustre?
There's a definite link between your sex life and your dirty laundry, says a clutter-busting expert.
"An unclear mind and space aren't conducive to good, yummy, relaxed sex," says Janet Mayfield, a feng shui consultant and former Edmontonian.
Feng shui is the ancient Chinese system of rearranging your environment to bring balance into your life.
Take a mental inventory of their bedroom space. How do they feel in it? Is it full of good memories or bad? Have you had more arguments than sex in there? Does the room feel private? Is the bed comfortable? Does the bed have a history before your current partner?
"Opening the windows, washing the bedding and burning a candle or incense will start to make a difference," says Mayfield. "If it feels really awful, empty the room entirely, wash it from top to bottom, and as you put it back together, play some favourite music, laugh, clap, sing or shake bells. It will help to break up any old remaining chi -- energy."
Other tips: Take out pictures of the children and family. Fill it with happy pictures of you and your spouse. Clear up any sign of work. The colours pink, coral and peach are very conducive to romance, so use these colours if you like them.
If you've ever secretly worn red panties under your clothes just to feel sexy, then you can attest to the power of colour to affect your mood.
When it comes to cleaning house, Edmonton marriage counsellor Gary Meiers is no clutter-busting guru, but he says a good sweep under the proverbial carpets can do wonders for your sex life.
Over time, unskilled communication can lead to resentment and kill intimacy, he says.
ot buying into the whole "change your decor, change your life" philosophy?
Then consider this timeless aphorism from an ancient Indian text, The Upanishads:
* Watch your thoughts; they become words.
* Watch your words; they become actions.
* Watch your actions; they become habits.
* Watch your habits; they become your character.
* Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.
It doesn't take a feng shui leap to see that our inner and outer worlds are intrinsically connected. So, this spring, why not do an internal sweep? Take out the trash in your love life and transform your relationship. After all, no amount of clutter is worth a sexless destiny.
