Important News from Ascending Hearts

We believe that you attract the energy you send out. We want to attract socially-conscious, environmentally-sensitive and spiritually-awake individuals to join our extended soul family here on Ascending Hearts.

We are sending our intention out and adding the energy of action. In honor of Valentine's Day, Ascending Hearts will be donating half of the initial payment, whether it is for 1 month or 1 year, for each new member from February 1 through June 30 to the Humanity Healing Foundation to fund their spiritually-based humanitarian actions worldwide.

Look for your Soulmate, add your energy to raising the collective consciousness of the planet AND help to restore Hope to individuals and communities in need - all at the same time! Join in today!

Do You Have Your Ascension Buddy?

Remember the Buddy System?

Back when I was a child, nothing was more fun in the summer than to go to the pool, or the lake, or the ocean - anywhere you could swim on a hot summer day. Whenever we went, my Mom would always make sure that my best friend could come with us. Invariably, just before we ran off to dive in, my Mom would yell, "Remember the Buddy System!"

The Buddy System. The idea is that since water can be dangerous, you needed a "buddy" who would look out for you while you looked out for them and, as a result, the pair of you would be safer than if each were swimming alone.

(This did not mean that a pair of children could not get into more mischief than one alone, but at least we were safer while doing it…)

As I grew older and reached new stages in life, I started to realize that it was more than just companionship in what I was pursuing as an ideal relationship. I needed a "buddy", a special someone that would understand not only my physical and emotional needs, but my spiritual needs. I realized that what I was looking for was an Ascension Buddy. I found out that the Buddy System was the best way to approach life (and afterlife) in general.

Of course, this led me to back to the starting point. Now what? After years of looking around, I was starting to wonder where I could go to find this elusive type of partner. You have to understand that this was actually a serious situation for me, because I had always believed in the "fairy tale" of the perfect Soulmate who was just supposed to magically show up in my life.

Well, it hadn't just happened. I know you attract the frequency you send out, but my Soulmate and I just hadn't connected yet. I knew that the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with would not be someone I would probably meet in a singles bar and the regular dating sites proved no better. The truth is that once you start onto the spiritual path, you feel compelled to continue going, but it can be a lonely because Nature always creates in pairs and we know that Humans are not really meant to be alone. We all have our divine counterpart, but where was I to find her?

I am a believer in love and while I believe that opposites can attract on the physical level, I also believe that the spiritual level is defined through resonance and alignment of frequencies. We tend to be attracted to people that we identify ourselves with. I wasn't looking for someone who would complete something I was missing; I was looking for someone who matched the best part of me: my Soulmate, a partner for lifetimes.

I was stuck. I had found relationships, but they didn't have the spiritual element that I needed. I wanted someone that could understand my daily meditation rituals, my passion for Oneness and my thirst for Life. I needed someone that would share the Path this life, and maybe other existences together, that could work side by side with me for the greater good of all, and not just be there for long walks on the beach and pina coladas (although I wanted that too).

I needed an Ascension Buddy.

I started looking for a place out there where I could find someone that would connect at the spiritual level as well as at a physical level.

My search ended when I finally realized that I did not needed to look around in an endless search for my other half; I just needed to give the Universe a chance to let it happen into my life. This was made possible not only by being at the right place at the right time, but by looking among people with similar interests and a spiritual life path.

It was simply a matter of engineering synchronicity. Think of it this way: if you are a fisherman, would you have a better chance at catching a certain type of fish by throwing your lure in any old river, or in a pond stocked with the type of fish you wanted?

I was fortunate. I found my Soulmate and based on our similar experiences of frustration in searching for a spiritual partner in the vast sea of people out there, we created a dating site dedicated to helping spiritual singles connect with their Divine Complement: Ascending Hearts.

Our motto says it all: Where two Ascending Hearts become One.

Do YOU have your Ascension Buddy?

If not, try fishing in our pond.

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9 Green Date Ideas

By Alex Blackwell, Intent

Dating today is a lot different, from an eco-friendly perspective, than it was 25 years ago when I first met my wife. In 1984 we would hit the McDonald’s on the way to the beach and order bags of fast food placed in Styrofoam containers. After we had our fill of the sun, we would jump back in the car and drive the short one-half mile distance from the shoreline to the Boardwalk where we would play Putt-Putt and shop for souvenirs.

While Mary Beth and I still enjoy our time at the beach, our approach has changed based on our knowledge of how we can better protect the Earth for our children and grandchildren and so on. While there is still plenty of interest from both of us to keep the passion and romance alive, we are beginning to learn how to find romantic things to do that respects our planet at the same time.

1. Exchange cards or notes made out of recycled papers. Nothing delights me more than to find a card or note Mary Beth has left for me. Today, it’s easy to find recycled cards. You may also want to check out www.recycledgreetingcards.com. This site offers 100% recycled cards for almost every occasion.

2. Spend time growing a garden together. Avoiding harmful pesticides is not the only benefit to planting a garden. Gardens help to prevent the run-off of pollutants into our water supplies, plus, the additional vegetation provides a much-need shot of carbon dioxide into the atmosphere.

3. Feed the birds. Feed them and they will come. Set up birdfeeders in your backyard and then grab a glass of wine or the drink of your choice and plant yourself next to your mate on a bench as you watch the birds enjoy the feast. After finding your lawn, the birds will return the favor by eating the insects that can damage your yard. A little birdfeed is a better choice that a bottle of Raid.

4. Go to a zoo. Use your time at the zoo to learn how you can help the environment. Discuss how you can help the animals that are facing extinction. Extend the love you have for your partner to the other living beings we share this world with, too. A word of caution: Not all Zoos are animal friendly. Visit Zoos that allow animals to roam in their natural habitats, like the San Diego Wild Animal Park. In fact you may want to visit the San Diego’s Zoo website to get a better sense of how a conscientious Zoo respects its animals.

5. Have a green picnic. There are plenty of choices to turn your romantic picnic into one that is environmentally friendly. Use real plates, not paper; use reusable cups, not disposable ones. And when the picnic is over, don’t forget to recycle!

6. Turn down the heat. During the months of January and February in Kansas City, Mary Beth and I really miss the milder winters of Virginia Beach. While we can’t control the Arctic air that moves across the down slope of the Great Plains and seemingly through our front door, we can control the temperature inside our home. We have learned to be more energy conscious by turning our thermostat to 68 degrees. While this puts a slight chill in the house, it does provide the opportunity for us to lounge in front of a fire or cuddle closer together in bed.

7. Plant a tree together. Trees play an essential role in the eco-system of the earth. You and your partner can visit your local nursery to get information on which trees would be best for the climate and soil conditions in your community. Planting a tree acknowledges the importance of planning for the future, and of setting down roots - two elements essential to a strong relationship.

8. Keep the car at home and walk. Convenience comes with a price. In 1984, the price for a gallon of gasoline was still less than a dollar. We didn’t think twice about using the car to go wherever we wanted to go. Today, my wife and I attempt to walk to our destinations not because of the much higher price of gasoline, but because of our knowledge to care more for our world more. The auxiliary benefit to this approach is unencumbered, and even blissful, time together.

9. Turn off the lights. Save energy and create a romantic ambiance by turning off unneeded lights. At the end of the day, in the darkness of our room, my wife and I find peace and closeness and feel thankful for our time on this earth together. Just as we try to cherish and respect what we share, we are also mindful to show respect and tenderness to the earth that has provided such a beautiful stage to play out our lives.

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How about a Green Date?

How to Plan a Green Date: Eco-Friendly Date Ideas

Running out of date ideas? Are you tired of the usual dinner and movie night outs? Why not impress your special someone by having an eco-friendly date? Aside from having a fabulous time together, a green inspired activity is a great way to minimize damage to the environment.

Here are some clean and green date activities to help you pull off a fun and earth-friendly date:

Forget the car - A little sacrifice goes a long way. While driving is convenient, it creates air pollution. Try walking tours instead and save on fuel consumption while partaking the beauty of your local architecture. Plus, you can lose some calories, too. If walking is such a pain, then opt for public transportation, such as buses and trains. Or better yet, take the bike, which is the most eco-friendly way to get around.

Dine at a local restaurant

- Green your dining options, too! Browse your local events guide and check for restaurants in your area that practices green hospitality and cook meals using lesser energy consumption. You can also look for a dining establishment that supports local agriculture or serves organic cuisine.

Visit the farmers market - As going to the farm is rather inconvenient, instead, meet your date on a Saturday morning at a local farmers market and shop for some homegrown produce. Try an organic wine, bread or cheese if you please. A lot of farmers markets are popping up in communities, and visiting one is a wonderful way to support the local agriculture. You will be even surprised to know that these farmers markets not only offer a wide selection of the freshest and luscious fruits, vegetables, meats, seafood, but they also have delectable recipes to share!

Have an earth-friendly picnic at the park - With all those locally grown products you bought, you should consider planning a green picnic at the park. Stay away from plastic utensils and other disposables. Bring your favorite china, silverware, wine glasses, and cloth napkins instead. Whip up some fresh salads, sandwiches, a bottle of wine; pack them neatly in stainless steel food containers, and you're all set for a hearty meal. Spread the tablecloth or blanket; get cozy and enjoy the fresh air.

Give back to the community - Pledge your date time to a local non-profit organization. You and your significant other can either support a cause by donating or volunteering. For instance, you can serve meals at a soup kitchen or help out a retirement facility. Most big cities also have green projects that you can be part of. Just find something you both enjoy, and beneficial for the community.

Check out the outdoors - What is green dating without heading outdoors? The best earth-friendly date is involving Mother Nature! And your options are simply infinite-hiking, swimming, rafting, skiing, kayaking, sailing, surfing are all fantastic green date ideas that allow you to enjoy nature's beauty, and each other!

If you are into green living, arrange a perfect date that minimizes carbon footprint and contributes to earth preservation. Just refer to the green dating ideas above, and surely, your date will appreciate you even more. And he or she might be inspired, too, to start a green lifestyle!

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Symbolic Feng Shui Level - Feng Shui Symbols -

Symbolic Feng Shui Level - Feng Shui Love Symbols -

By Rodika Tchi, About.com Guide

From my experience as a feng shui consultant, the level that creates a lot of confusion about feng shui applications is the symbolic level of feng shui.

Feng Shui Symbols have a rich, culturally specific history and meaning. Most of us are familiar with the look of many feng shui items such as Chinese coins tied with a red string, wind chimes, three legged toads, gods of wealth, etc, etc.

What is important to understand is that, in order for feng shui to work, you do not necessarily have to apply traditional Chinese feng shui symbols. You have to apply culturally specific symbols that resonate with you. Applying feng shui correctly does not imply you have to apply the culturally specific feng shui items that you may not understand or resonate with.

The reason symbolic level of feng shui works is because of the energy specific symbols bring into one's environment, as well as because of their connection with the subconscious level of your mind. The stronger your connection with these symbols, i.e. the more you like them, the more powerful they become for you.

Some of the most popular Chinese feng shui symbols are:

Love & Marriage Feng Shui Symbols

Dragon and Phoenix
Mandarin Ducks
The Double Happiness Sign
Peony Flowers

Wealth Feng Shui Symbols

Gold Arrowana or Koi Fish
Chinese Coins
The Three Legged Toad
Golden Ingots
Sailing Ship

Good Fortune Feng Shui Symbols

Chi Lin, the Dragon Horse
Golden Cicada
The Red Bat

Health & Longevity Feng Shui Symbols

Sau, the God of Longevity
Lucky Bamboo
Wu-Lou, Gourd

Feng Shui Symbols were used for centuries in feng shui applications because of the power of symbols and associations, as well as because of the energy certain items embody. If a certain feng shui symbol does not resonate with you, feel free to chose one that works for you, expresses the same energy, and it is from the culture you grew up in.

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Choose Love with Feng Shui: Attract the Energy of Love

Feng shui tips for romantic love and self-love

By Rodika Tchi, About.com Guide

Feng shui for love is a popular topic. Not only because we are all looking for love, but also because feng shui has a variety of powerful feng shui tips to help you attract love.

If you type the word "Love" in any search engine, you will come up with love calculators, love tests, and, of course, love-related services at the top of the list. Feng shui brings help to your love search the easy way, thus it is worth taking the time and applying the many feng shui love tips.

When you look for love, the first thing to focus is your love relationship with yourself. Not only because, feng shui-wise, the only way to dramatically improve your love life is to experience more love towards yourself, but also because you will attract a better quality of people once you start feeling more love for yourself. You will also notice an improvement in "all your relations" - with your children, parents, friends and co-workers.

Check the Flow of Love in Your Home

In feng shui terms, the real test of love energy is to honestly evaluate the state of your bedroom, with the bathroom feng shui test being second on the list.

Yes, of course every part of your home speaks about you, but from many years of feng shui consulting I know that only bedrooms - the most intimate space where the "outsiders" are usually not allowed - truly speak of your level of love towards yourself.

Are you ready for a genuine and deeply personal commitment to love, honour and accept yourself? If you are, read on. If you are not, just meditate on the fact that all your painful relationships and Valentine's day dramas are reflecting back to you your inability to love yourself. If you cannot love yourself for who you are, how can you possibly really love another?

Here is a little feng shui "checklist" for your bedroom, just 3 simple questions looking for your honest answers:

Do you like all the items that surround you in your bedroom?

When you wake up in the morning do you feel happy with what you see?

Before falling asleep, do you feel "cocooned" and "nurtured", no matter with or without a partner?

If you answered "No" to any of these questions, do set aside some time to create a clear feng shui plan on how can you start feeling and expressing self-love by creating a nurturing and sensual bedroom. It is just a start, but it is a good and solid one.

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Can Feng Shui Really Help Me Find My Soulmate?

By Rodika Tchi, About.com Guide

Question: Can Feng Shui Really Help Me Find My Soulmate?

I have heard that feng shui can help me find the love of my life. To tell you the truth, I am skeptical, but still willing to give it a try. Can it really help me find my soulmate?

Answer: Feng Shui can certainly help you find love, find your soulmate. The important thing to understand, though, is that a feng shui consultant is not walking into your space with a magic wand and a clear timeline for the expected results. As with everything, you are the one who has to make it happen - and feng shui is a very powerful tool to speed up the love search process and save you a lot of time and effort.

From my experience with clients looking for a love partner, a big factor in how quickly you will see results lies in:

how clear you are with what you want
how ready you are to accept love in your life.

You also have to know yourself very well and know what works for you. Being honest with yourself and committed to your happiness is the first step to attract honest, committed people into your life.

Let me ask you, are you really ready for love? I mean, if the man or the woman of your dreams were to walk into your home today, what message will your home (and particularly your bedroom) be sending?
Last, but not least, if you are pragmatic about using feng shui for love, most likely feng shui will not work so well for you. If you are ready to give feng shui for love tips a try, do it with an open heart and total commitment.

The clients who achieved the most beautiful results truly believed in feng shui as an energy tool and applied the feng shui for love tips diligently and with a clear intent.

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Why Romance is Important in Your Dating Relationship

Ways to Add Romance to Your Dating Relationship

By Bonny Albo, About.com Guide

Every dating relationship needs romance to stay alive. Most couples have little issue with finding romantic ideas to share with their partner early on, but after the new relationship energy has worn off it may take a bit of time and creativity to get the romance flowing again.

Without romance, couples can easily fall into a rut of day-to-day living. What was once hot and steamy can become boring, routine or even sibling-like.

So how do you keep the romance alive, even when you've got a busy household with other responsibilities? You add one (or more) of these romance ideas every week to find the spark the two of you have been missing.