Choose Love with Feng Shui: Attract the Energy of Love

Feng shui tips for romantic love and self-love

By Rodika Tchi, About.com Guide

Feng shui for love is a popular topic. Not only because we are all looking for love, but also because feng shui has a variety of powerful feng shui tips to help you attract love.

If you type the word "Love" in any search engine, you will come up with love calculators, love tests, and, of course, love-related services at the top of the list. Feng shui brings help to your love search the easy way, thus it is worth taking the time and applying the many feng shui love tips.

When you look for love, the first thing to focus is your love relationship with yourself. Not only because, feng shui-wise, the only way to dramatically improve your love life is to experience more love towards yourself, but also because you will attract a better quality of people once you start feeling more love for yourself. You will also notice an improvement in "all your relations" - with your children, parents, friends and co-workers.

• Check the Flow of Love in Your Home

In feng shui terms, the real test of love energy is to honestly evaluate the state of your bedroom, with the bathroom feng shui test being second on the list.

Yes, of course every part of your home speaks about you, but from many years of feng shui consulting I know that only bedrooms - the most intimate space where the "outsiders" are usually not allowed - truly speak of your level of love towards yourself.

Are you ready for a genuine and deeply personal commitment to love, honour and accept yourself? If you are, read on. If you are not, just meditate on the fact that all your painful relationships and Valentine's day dramas are reflecting back to you your inability to love yourself. If you cannot love yourself for who you are, how can you possibly really love another?

Here is a little feng shui "checklist" for your bedroom, just 3 simple questions looking for your honest answers:

• Do you like all the items that surround you in your bedroom?



• When you wake up in the morning do you feel happy with what you see?



• Before falling asleep, do you feel "cocooned" and "nurtured", no matter with or without a partner?

If you answered "No" to any of these questions, do set aside some time to create a clear feng shui plan on how can you start feeling and expressing self-love by creating a nurturing and sensual bedroom. It is just a start, but it is a good and solid one.